Question From The Shoutbox
Guest_8475 posted in the shout box:
MCB how would you and California girl react if your kids said to you guys that they have read your blog. Would CG be embarrassed if she knew your son and daughter saw what she looked like when she was getting eaten or sucking your cock? She shouldn’t, sex is part of life. Our 18 yr old daughter recently walked in on my wife and I while we were 69′ing. After the initial shock, my wife talked to her. Our daughter thought it was cool that Mom and Dad still loved each other enough to still do that.
First, let us preface by saying that you never truly know how you will react to a specific situation until it happens but this is what we think.
We don’t think that there is much any mystery to the fact that we are still sexually active. The master bedroom has always been off limits to our kids. And, despite a busy family schedule, we’ve always reserved some adult alone time on a regular basis; irrespective of weather the or not the kids were home. So it’s would be more of a TMI situation versus a new information situation. Our kids know how important they are to us; but they also are aware that our world doesn’t revolve around them and that we have our own lives that do not always include them. So, we don’t think that there would be a lot of “discussion”. We respect their space/privacy and expect them to respect ours. For someone in college, our blog is a boring read any ways.
We hope this answers your question. If not please let us know.
I think this is a wonderful message… You, your wife, and kids are very lucky. How many couples devote all their time, energy, and every waking moment to their children, then find they are two strangers the moment they’re alone? You have given your children the wonderful gift of your love and attention, and equally important, you have taught them the value and meaning of a life of love. With all the challenges you must have faced along the way, you are a true inspiration, and may you continue to grow in love (and LUST!!) for many years to come!!
Much love,
Val in Ohioooooooooooooo
Valerie: We appreciate your comment very much. Like any parent, we’ve made some mistakes; but we think that our kids are turning into AWSOME young adults. Equal parts nature, nurture and good luck we’re sure.
Great response- I feel much the same way though I am slowly getting there more as the kids grow up. Love the last line about the bordem factor for college students LOL!
Viemoira: You never know the impact you have on kids until they aren’t technically your responsibility and are making their own way. Hopefully we’ve imparted upon them the skills to survive and flourish; but one of the imprint lessons you hope they truly learn is that it’s not all about them.
P.S. I don’t even want to think about all the things that I was into when I was in college.