HNT – 89
The weather has been good outside so California Girl and I decided to explore one of our local parks. We didn’t find quite what we were looking for but we did stop for a quick blow job. Blow jobs are always welcome; especially when they are serendipitous. We hope to do more “exploring” in the near future. There are plenty of paths to that we haven’t been on. Anyway, our theme for today is “exploring the park”. We really, really like being out side in the warm spring and summer months. Once again click ‘em to big ‘em.
California Girl in the park sucking Midwestern City Boy’s dick.
California Girl in the park giving Midwestern City Boy a blow job.
To go on a hike with benefits like this one, talk to your significant other. To find out what HNT is all about visit Osbasso.
I gotta get out more often!
That looked like a fun trip
HHNT!
That just looks like fun.
HHNT
Great line “Hiking with benefits”! Just out of curiosity – how did you guys keep things hot when your children were small? I’m sure it is easier now that they are older, but I’m going nuts!! Hope you don’t mind my asking! Thanks for the pics!
I love outdoor sex… You srrm to enjoy your yask a lot!!
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HHNT!
Lucky you, and with summer still to come!
You always have the most fun! HHNT!
Kitty: We make it a point to do “couple stuff” at least once a week; twice if we can manage. We try and do something for HNT on Tuesday. And we usually do something on Friday or Saturday night (unless the kids have a game). It’s hard to do something on both days consistently but we usually get away on at least one.
Now that it’s warm outside, there’s fun just waiting to be found outside.
Jean: it was a great pit stop. Although we do a lot of jogging in the park so it was good to walk around and see all of the things we don’t notice when we run by.
AmyElle: It was fun. But I probably wasn’t the best lookout. I don’t think there is anyplace around here where there aren’t people nearby.
Michelle: It was HARD when the children were small. We did have two things which kept us sane. First, the master bedroom was absolutely off limits to the kids except when California Girl was nursing. After that they went back to the crib in their own room. Also, although there was a period when California Girl wore PJs (which was a bigger issue than it seemed), we retained the habit of sleeping in the nude. Those two things made it easier to “get frisky” in the evenings. And we always had Saturday morning for ourselves, even if it meant up doing things with the kind and going back to bed. In fact, there was a period of time when the kids were a bit older that California Girl got up and took then to their activities for a couple of hours, then came home and went back to bed.
Our kids are two years apart so, by the time The Girl was a toddler, they could play with each other. So, if they were engrossed in a game or TV program, we could have a few minutes to ourselves. We had a small house which was well baby-proofed so they were safe to be in another room for short periods of time. Yours are four years apart so they might not play as much together. But, they still take naps.
The main thing is trying to keep the mindset that you are husband wife first and mom and dad second. Then you’re looking for things that you can do as a couple even though you have kids rather than always being concerned with “family” events. Balance is important; and a lot harder to achieve than it seems.
SeaRabbit: We like outdoor sex too. (At least in the summer.) Under the sun or under the stars. But not when it’s cloudy or overcast.
Alfie: We live for the summer. We got in the pool for the first time today.
LushlyMe: We have our share of boring days too. For example, on Thursday, I sat in the car for 90-minutes while the girl was at soccer practice. But, when the kids are not around, we are always looking to have fun.
Naps??? The baby naps, but Z hasn’t napped in years. He’ll watch TV for a bit though….we do try to plan time together in the evenings after they go to bed, but sometimes we just are wiped out by then. Luckily, tonight wasn’t one of those nights hehe. Thanks for the advice – we’ll work on that.
Small children can be exhausting. Spending time together when nether of you is wiped out is the key. Then, everything else falls into place. Don’t be afraid to take a “nap” yourself. Going back to bed on Saturday felt a bit weird at first but now we don’t; think of it as being odd at all. And during the summer, we try and “sleep in” a bit during the week. Just try to avoid a situation where the kids ask if you are jumping on the bed like ours did.
You two are staying just ahead of us on photo ideas!
We’ve been wanting to do some lunch time in-the-van-fun pictures for a while, as well as some outdoor/risky fun too. We’re hoping for good weather on Memorial Day weekend. Every year we rent a cabin on a lake WAY off in the boondocks. There is no plumbing, wood heat and electricity was only added a few years ago. We love it and look forward to it every year. The kids will be spending the weekend at grandma and grandpa’s so if it’s warm enough we want to get way off in the woods and get some outdoor sex pictures for the blog.
I agree 100% about balancing the love life and the parental responsibilities. If you’re relationship as husband and wife suffers, so will your relationship with your children and your family life in general. It’s important to take time out for each other. I absolutely hate plopping the kids in front of the TV for any extended period of time but occasionally, when we just can’t seem to get time alone, we’ll stick a DVD in and it almost guarantees a good hour or so of uninterrupted private time for us. We also like to do dates once a week. We drop the kids off at a good drop in daycare and off we go to dinner, a movie, and parking lot nookie.
Boyfriend: Our new vehicle really helps. There is enough space and the tinted windows help us feel like we aren’t so exposed. (Around here, the park rangers arrest everybody they catch so you have to be careful.) We cannot wait for the summer when the kids aren’t so busy on weekends and we can go off by ourselves.
I think that it’s great that you have a tradition of going off by yourselves on Memorial Day. We tried to do a similar thing for Valentines Day but the boy has a wrestling meet every year but one. We haven’t spent time in a cabin since our college dads but I can still visualize you weekend retreat.
I think that most couples try for balance but give up it’s so hard to manage; especially if you’ve only been married once and there isn’t an ex for the kids to visit every other weekend. Kids are very perceptive and are happier when their parents are happy. Having a family is the most rewarding thing in life but it is also one of the most challenging.
We didn’t like using the TV or the game console as a baby sitter either. Partly because we though the kids, especially The Boy played it games too much. And partly because we couldn’t really let ourselves go since we always had to listen out for the kids. They usually were good but occasionally they would get into things so we couldn’t focus totally on ourselves. And then there was the time when they banged on the bedroom door and asked if we were jumping on the bed. Or the time when we overheard The Boy telling The Girl to look under the door and see what we were doing. (Evidently when they were little, their heads were small enough that they could get their eyes close enough to the floor to look under a closed door.) Or the time… Anyway you get my point.
You guys have a wonderful relationship. I really enjoy your blog.