Miss_Chamko recently posted the following question on our Why I Think My Wife is HOT post.
I can’t help admire your admiration for CG. I am not sure how to ask this but is it that you’ve never either one of you flirted with anyone else since you’ve been together? And if CG told you she is attracted to someone else and wasn’t sure of her love for you, what would you tell her?
Since that post was so long ago, I though that I would answer her question here.
If California Girl was attracted to someone else I’d find him and put a major beat down on him so that he’d be too scared to call, much less come around. Seriously, I’d fight to win back her affections; but I’m not sure what that means. I don’t have a lot of charms so I’d probably have to think for awhile about what to say to convince her that I’m the one for her. Every relationship, our included, has its ups and downs, so I’d want for her to think about how things compare when we are flying high versus whatever problem we were having that made her susceptible to someone else in the first place. And to remember, the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill. When you’ve been together for as long as we have you know almost everything about each other, both good and bad. Someone new is always “better” since you haven’t yet encountered their flaws.
I meet people from time to time who seem genuinely interesting and sincere; some of whom even make propositions to me. But somehow I just can’t imagine myself anyplace but here. What we have is rare and I don’t think that it could ever be replicated. California Girl was there in olden times when things were great. She was there when we had small kids and things were not so great. And she’s here now when things are going pretty good. The experience of living through those times has made us who we are now. Without having been there, I don’t think anyone else could come close to understanding me, much less reproduce the connection that California Girl and I share. And I still think very few, if any, women out there are hot for same top ten reasons as California Girl.