Six Questions For Men
Kitty had a reverse meme on her blog where she posted the question and asked male visitors to answer hem. I answered them there but I thought that the questions and my responses were interesting so I posted them here as well.
- How often do men think about sex throughout the day? Every waking moment. We dream about it too.
- What do guys wish women knew. That sex is the cure for everything that ails us. And you don’t need to get all prettied up; we’re just as happy if you strip down and jump our bones. A spontaneous blow job, for example, is a great way to forget about a bad day.
- Do you have a regular date night with your significant other? What do you like to do? When the children don’t have any activities we try to go out on Friday and/or Saturday night. We like to go to dinner at a nice restaurant and then perhaps to a club. And, of course, we have our Tuesday photo session for HNT. We don’t usually leave the house but we really have fun with our photo sessions.
- Do you feel it’s important to keep love alive and if so, what do you do? Its very important to keep love alive. We try and do a lot of things together even if its “unnecessary”. We try to always keeps in mind that we are husband and wife in addition to and sometimes instead of mom and dad.
- What makes you feel special, number one, and loved? Thoughtful surprises. I hate surprises unless they are pleasant ones. Sex is great for this too.
- Do you feel you should be the one to always initiate sex, or should your s/o take some responsibility here? No! Whenever the woman is the initiator is always very appreciated. Nothing beats being propositioned.
If you haven’t already, please stop by and answer her questions on her Calling All Men post.



All your answers were so thoughtful and insightful. Thank you for taking the time to answer them.
#2 is really hard for most of us women to accept from our men.
Kitty: That doesn’t mean that romance is dead. And we’re happy to romance you because that’s what you want/need. But we all long to be lusted after in a simple uncomplicated way. Kind of like in a porn movie, except with real emotion if that’s not too much of an oxymoron.
I can’t say I dissagree with any of your answers, barring the fact that me and my girl do not have children yet, I think you describe 90% of all men in a relationship.
Grizzly Bear: Keeping intimacy alive when you have small children and is one of the biggest struggles that couples face. It’s hard to be amorous when you are both exhausted.