Put It In, Take It Out, Put It In, Take It Out
For all of Saturday and most of Sunday, California Girl and I have been having sex every six hours which is the same period of time that her diaphragm should stay in after “use”. It was just coincidence but it seemed like all she was doing was taking it out, washing it off, and then a very short while later, putting it back in again. It’s a great way to spend a weekend but we will be going to the store very soon to get some more Gynol II.
Yesterday, we had a sumptuous dinner at a restaurant we frequent. They were out of prime rib the last time that we went since it was approaching closing time so it was good to go and get a nice sit down dinner before the rush of school begins. Next Saturday (and the Saturday after that and the Saturday after that) we’re double booked with cross-country meets and soccer games. We enjoy watching our children compete but it will make for some hectic days, especially when they are both on the road.
We got in free to the club we went to last night since the friend of a friend was working at the door. I don’t mind paying the cover but it’s always nice to get a “comp”. Plus we ran into a bunch of people that we know, some of which we hadn’t seen since the spring, so it was a good night. I just love the energy you find in a dance club. Another blogger had mentioned in one of their recent posts that they had recently been told to “act their age”. If it means staying in on Saturday night and watching television, I hope we never act our age. I wonder how many 40-something couples are doing the wild thing at 3:00 A.M. in the morning after getting back from a night out?
Now its off to the 24-hour super store for us. Hopefully they will have plenty of Gynol II. Its almost been six hours. 
You amaze me. Have you thought of an IUD? Temporary (as opposed to permanent), outta sight, outta mind. No interruption. They’re great, and you wouldn’t have to run out for Gynol II.
Redhead Editor: California Girl has used an IUD before; but, for a variety of reasons, it’s now on “can’t use” list. We do the best that we can with the other methods available but I will admit that a diaphragm is almost comical at times; especially when it’s in heavy use. Sometimes, the advanced preparation required makes things seem a bit more “clinical” than we would like. Even after all of these years, it still seems odd asking California Girl to get her diaphragm before we go do something that may end up with us having sex.
Damn! Wish hubby and I could do that…the last time we had ‘extended’ sex time, I got a UTI!!! SUCKS! Of course, he is able to get it anytime he wants….all my “reproductive” areas are gone…hyst 5 years ago, he loves it…as I do to.
Have fun!!!!!
Hi, I have just had the contraceptive implant in my arm and would definitely recommend it! It is free on the NHS in the UK. Not sure what the situation is over there though. Just a thought!x
CG i am so glad you’re giving that diaphragm a workout girl. When I was first married ours sldom saw the case. After 20+ years we have slowed down some. what a lot of guys fail to realize is that my husband and I use ti for other things.
First off it tightens my vagina when its in and second should that monthly messenger arrive it will stem the crimmson tide. My husband calls ours the “Rubber biscut”. He says knowing that I have to take it out while I am at work and that other women are identifing the fact that I have had sex that morning a great turn on. I often share stories with him on the comments others make as I wash it out at the sink.
I totally understand, but there are 3 IUDs on the market now, all of which I have tried and liked. The only drawback is running into it if you’re ahhh, well, hung like I think you are. But that’s not necessarily a bad thing cuz it means you’re gettin’ some! E-mail me if you have more questions and it’s time to ditch that diaphram. I mean you’re spending the kids’ college fund on Gynol II! What a way to go broke. You are the wind beneath my wings.
Bathtime Gal: UTIs suck. Years ago I had one as a guy and was passing blood. It really hurt to use the bathroom and the antibiotics I took turned things a strange color. So I can sympathize with you. (Does this comment win the TMI award?)
Cat: Here you have to pay for everything. But it’s not the money. It’s the estrogen. California Girl and hormones don’t get along. Hormonal contraceptives are much better now that they were years ago but she’s not likely to try them again since they were so problematical.
Wendy: California Girl has hone to bed but I will be sure she responds your comment tomorrow.
Redhead Editor: California Girl has had two IUDs in the past. I sometimes got poked by the “tail” but otherwise they were great. Non-hormonal but still allowing for complete spontaneity.
Wendy: My company lets me work from home, so I can wash it in the privacy of my own sink. I am not sure if I would be bold enough to wash it in an office sink in front of all my coworkers. (Yes, I know 500,000 people have seen me nekkid on the Internet, but that seems different somehow!)
As for nicknames, Midwestern City Boy calls it “the primitive device” because it is such an antiquated method of birth control.
You should write to the makers of Gynol II and ask for some coupons.
Chickie: I’d rather they give me some coupons good for free sex. Of course I wonder where I would go to redeem them.