Room #1
California Girl and I did one of the items from The To-Do List this past Saturday. We went to a swing club! No, we didn’t swap. As I had posted previously, our objective was to see and be seen. We discussed it on Saturday morning and again when we got back from shopping and decided to go for it. We usually go out to eat on Saturday and then perhaps to a club. We decided to switch the order of things and go to the “club” first and get a light meal afterwards. That way we wouldn’t be “exercising” on a very full stomach.
Our first question was what to wear. We decided to keep it simple. California Girl wore blue jeans and one of the new tops she just bought. No bra as always. I wore a striped button down shirt and black jeans. Not the most impressive clothes that we own but we weren’t sure about the facilities. Before departing, California Girl put in her omnipresent diaphragm. Then it was into the car and off for a very interesting night out.
We arrived at the club. First we had to answer a bunch of questions to make sure that we weren’t reporters or undercover cops. Then we paid our membership dues, received the obligatory speech about club rules and regulations, and got our membership card. Once the administrative stuff was complete, we took a short orientation tour and then we were on our own. We had taken the tour for prospective club members back in the winter but it was way more crowded than we remembered. And unlike on Saturday, we knew we weren’t staying when we previously visited.
We figured the easiest way to get comfortable would be to have a snack from the buffet and explore on our own. The buffet was in a room toward the back which wasn’t as crowded as the main room toward the front. Except for the way some of the people were dressed you almost could forget where you were. There were people in various stages of undress. There were women in lingerie. There were people in street clothes like us. A lot of boobs were on display but not very many dicks. Once when we passed through a small sitting area, a couple of women asked “Show us your dick.” Given where we were, it seemed like they would have ample opportunity to see dicks but I thought why not so I dropped my pants. At this point, their husbands asked to see California Girl’s boobs so she lifted her shirt and gave then a flash. It turns out that they were just wondering if more guys would show dick or more women would flash boobs. Then one of the women says to the other “Show them the eyes.” The other woman had a pair of eyes tattooed on her shaved crotch. I can’t describe it very well; you’d have to see it.
We circulated for a while and narrowed our choices down to the jail house, a room with bars instead of one wall, Room #7, the black light room, or Room #1, a small room with two strategically placed closed circuit cameras. California Girl decided that the jail cell was too dirty and dingy, and there were too many people around the black light room, so we opted for the “camera room.” We were in luck, the room was unoccupied. So we went in, shut the door, and had a look around. The room was small. Just big enough for a bed and a place to stand. The cameras were unobtrusive. What was strange was the usual party noise (music, voices, etc.) coming from the other side of a very thin door. California Girl started to get undressed so I followed suit. There wasn’t any strip tease. We just got nekkid. We put our clothes in a small pile in the corner then got up on to the bed.
Except for the fact that we know we were on camera, and the noise in the next room it was almost like any other Saturday night. We started kissing and making out, easing our way into things. After a few minutes, I decided to go down on California Girl. Because of the cameras, the room was well lit so I had a good view of California Girl. As I was eating her out, my feet were touching the wall and I was thinking how handy it was going to bee to have something to push off against later on. It took a little longer than usual for California Girl to come but she had a good orgasm when she did. We were both “in the mood” and had put our surroundings out of mind enough to have a good time and enjoy ourselves. While I was on top, I made great use of the wall at the foot of the bed. There was a mirror on the wall but you could only see who was on top so we decided to switch positions and let California Girl ride me for a while. The temperature room was getting really hot but we were not nearly finished. We switched positions and did it doggy style for a while. I especially enjoyed it because of the mirror adjacent to the bed. Soon the sweat was pouring off me so we decided to take a break and do side by side. That was good; I wasn’t dripping sweat on California Girl. After a few minutes like that, we switched back to the missionary position.
Not dripping sweat on California Girl was a losing battle; the best I could do was not get any in her face. I stroked away for a long time before I came. Despite the heat it was good. We were both drenched. We looked like we had been out in the rain when we were finished. About thirty minutes into our session, California Girl had noticed that there was a fan on the wall but by then I didn’t want to bother with it. We used the sheet to dry ourselves off, got dressed, put the sheets in the hamper, and made our way back to the buffet area for some ice cold pop. Once we had cooled down, we chatted with the people in the back for a bit then decided to head out. We had to walk through the front room to leave, where the TV screens that showed what went on in Room #1 were, and boy were we surprised. There were a lot of people there. Way more than when we had come in 90-minutes earlier. We definitely accomplished our mission to be seen. As we headed out into the night, we heard several people say “Good show!” and “Thanks for the show.” I’m not sure if we’ll ever go back but it is certainly an experience to be remembered. California Girl and Midwestern City Boy went to a swing club and had sheet soaking sex on camera!
For dinner, we went up to a bar/pub that we liked and had chicken wings. It was weird sitting there drinking beer, eating dinner considering what we had been doing 30-minutes before. When we were finished with dinner, we went home and took a long hot shower together. Before getting into bed, I asked California Girl to get another squirt of spermicide. We still weren’t finished. It may have been memory of our activities earlier in the evening or just being in the middle of a very relaxing, very enjoyable vacation but we have some of the best sex we’ve had. We both slept like babies until mid-morning on Sunday. Then we did one of California Girl’s requests.
Comments
Comment from Chickie
Time May 30, 2005 at 9:57 am
Wow. What a neat experience. I loved reading about it. I’m trying to talk my other half into something such as that but it’s slow going.
Comment from Ed
Time May 30, 2005 at 10:17 am
Sue laughed when she read about not dripping sweat in CG’s face. Sometimes when our bedroom is hot (Sue likes to keep it warm due to her hypothyroidism) and we’ve been at it hard for some time I will sweat like crazy and I have to try hard to avoid dripping on her. Especially when she has her ankles on my shoulders and I’m propped on my hands, sometimes there’s nothing I can do except try not to get it in her face - so I can identify with that one!
What a great experience going to a swing club, though. I wouldn’t even know if there are any around here (somehow I doubt it).
Wouldn’t it be funny if one of your readers was in the club that night?
Comment from sk
Time May 30, 2005 at 12:59 pm
We’re just shaking our heads about the sweat thing. I’ve had it in my eyes more than once. I guess that’s what hot fucking does to ya!!
We’re really jealous, but we’d NEVER do it on camera. You are brave souls. I think that rocks! Too funny that you didn’t know that the cameras must be broadcasting SOMEWHERE!! Now you guys are movie stars! Wonder if they’d save the tape and sell it for porn? Did you have to sign a release?? Oh well….just wish YOU would make money off of it!
Nice job!
Comment from Midwestern City Boy
Time May 30, 2005 at 7:47 pm
Rosie: It was an enjoyable experience; taken by itself or considering that it was from “The Todo List”. We don’t do things off of the list all the time, but we do things frequently enough so that it’s really a todo list as opposed to a wishful thinking list.
It’s all California Girl. She’s very receptive to trying new things. (Both in the bedroom and otherwise). It’s easy to suggest things to her, even if they are a bit risqué. I don’t feel line I’m going to get “What kind of woman do you think I am!” for a response.
Chickie: As I said in my post, we went there a few months ago just to scope things out. That way we at least knew what kind of people to expect. There were all different races and body types. Not a bunch of guys walking around with huge biceps and enormous dicks hanging out or women with plastic surgery perfect bodies. The range was more like what you might see on a visit to the mall rather than a visit to a hard core gym.
California Girl works at home and, with all of the “reorganizations” they have had, I don’t think any of her co-workers even know what she looks like. She’s just a voice on the telephone. And, as I said in my “How Square” post, the chances of meeting someone I know from work are extremely remote. They’re all are at home watching TV at 10:00 on a Saturday night. Besides they would be there for the same reason we are. (To have a good time.) If anybody was going to be uncomfortable, it would probably be them since we were first timers and chances are they would be established members. So there wasn’t a valid reason not to at least consider it.
I spent way too many years asking “What if” rather than saying “So what.” The time when we had small children were the most trying times of our marriage. We survived those days but perhaps things would have been better if we had been more adventurous and focused more on us and less on the children. Everyone there was friendly and nobody was pushy.
The camera thing was cool. I think it actually worked out better than if we had selected the “jail cell.” We had “privacy” in the room but it still satisfied our goal of being seen. We didn’t stay long after we were finished but that was the point. We came, did our thing and left. Neither of us was propositioned. And no one did anything to make us uncomfortable. I was actually a bit surprised. California Girl started getting undressed before I did. Neither of us had any second thoughts once we were in the room.
We talked about it a bit before our first visit back in winter/early spring. And on Saturday, we discussed it both in the morning as well as just before we left to make sure we were both in agreement and that we had the same vision of the evening. We did not over-analyze but we made sure that we had a clear understanding. Neither of us is real self conscious but it definitely was going to be a new experience for both of us. And I have to admit that I wondered if I was going to be able to get it up, but mercifully, the plumbing did not fail me, and I did not have to take a walk of shame. And we had a BLAST!
Ed: It reminded me of in our previous house when the air conditioner was broken. It was just odd since it was something we weren’t expecting. If we had noticed the fan when we first entered, we would have probably turned it on but we focused on other things. (Like the cameras and where do we put our clothes.) We did switch positions but couldn’t avoid it in the positions we prefer. And if California Girl was on top, it just changed who was getting dripped on.
You’d be surprised. There are three swing clubs in the area. I would not have expected it for this area. We live in Ohio, a state which is not known for its liberalism. It’s amazing what turns up in Google. It does make me wonder what goes on in more free-spirited places like California.
It would be funny if someone that reads this blog was in the club on Saturday. We don’t have many readers from the local area but we do have some. I usually just check the logs to make sure that no one from work is visiting. It will be interesting to see what comments, e-mails we get over the next few days.
SK: The sweat thing contributed to the atmosphere. Though we would have preferred the room to be cooler, we’ll always remember our sheet-soaking encounter in the swing club. I’m sure the next time we have some sweaty sex, one or both of us will break out laughing.
We knew that we were live and in color; that was part of the plan. We just didn’t expect so many people to actually be watching. California Girl had some reservations about the cameras at first but both the management and other members stressed that it’s not taped. Besides, there was a lot more interesting goings on in the club than the two of us. While we were there, a woman came out of one of the rooms with two guys, neither of whom was her husband. I know because when I met him later on he said “My wife is running around her somewhere” and them described her perfectly. The only thing the first guy could say was wow, and the other guy was speechless.
We didn’t have to sign a release but I’m not sure that it matters since we pretty much signed our life away anyways. I doubt they would be able to sell it even if there was a tape which there wasn’t since we weren’t profiling for the camera. Did you ever notice how in porn the actors/actresses get the actresses’ hair out of the way during blow jobs to give the camera a better view? How many women do you know in real life that hold their hair with one hand while giving head?
As we have gotten older the never list has gotten shorter. We don’t want to look back thirty years from now and say “we should have …” Years ago, I would not have expected to have a blog with photographs. I can be a suspicious person but I find that I enjoy life more when I take people at their word (at least until proven otherwise). We’re not celebrities so secret footage of us wouldn’t have much public appeal.
Comment from sk
Time May 30, 2005 at 10:13 pm
More power to ya’ll! I agree…so WHAT if someone finds out. Just shake your head and say “DAMN STRAIGHT THAT WAS US!!”
You two would NEVER have anything to be ashamed of!!
Comment from OG
Time May 31, 2005 at 9:05 am
Hey..sounds like a great time at [name of club removed]. This area is full of great times!
Great blog. Thanks for sharing.
Comment from Kelly
Time May 31, 2005 at 8:21 pm
Yeah for you both - that would be new horizons..I’ve visited a few times with a partner..and always enjoyed my time..though I never swapped…the adult atmosphere is fun!
Comment from Midwestern City Boy
Time May 31, 2005 at 11:48 pm
OG: I removed the name of the club from your comment. (I try not to mention specific places.) The rooms are unique enough that anyone that’s been there knows where I’m talking about anyway.
I’m glad you like the blog. We most certainly enjoy doing it.
Kelly: We like expanding our horizons within reason. (I can’t see us swapping.) This was completely different from anything California Girl had done previously and a new experience for me too. I’ve had “spectators” before but never before in a club environment.
Comment from dirty girl
Time January 7, 2006 at 10:22 am
i just wanted to say how hot this is… i know you posted it last year but i just came across your blog last night and have come back today to look some more. i have been playing with myself whilst reading and looking at your pictures… very arousing. I reall like the blog! I shall be coming back…. 
Comment from Midwestern City Boy
Time January 8, 2006 at 2:55 am
Thank you very much. That night at the swing club was a blast. We don’t swing; but it is still a fun place to go. We don’t go there all the time; but when we have, we’ve done things there that I can’t envision doing in other environments.
We’re glad you like our blog. We certainly have fun with it.
Comment from Rosie
Time May 30, 2005 at 8:32 am
That was interesting. What a rush to do something off the list. And you two are always so wonderfully into each other, and in to expanding your experiences.